Things you should never apologise for

            

  8 things you should never apologise for

This clause may not seem right at the moment, but standing up for yourself and saying what you feel is right will certainly benefit you in the long run. I am not saying you have to be brusque and say out things blatantly, instead, be kind to everyone but NEVER apologise for these 8 things. 

1. For saying the truth 

Let us face it, telling the truth can be difficult sometimes and if the person is close to you then it is even harder but honest people are forever appreciated. It may sound a bit coarse at first, but as you start thinking about yourself first, hurting others may not even cross your mind. You are simply doing your job(telling the truth) and if others get hurt, then that is not your lookout. Remember, it is a two-way road, if you are strong enough to tell the truth, and so you have to be even stronger when someone else tells you the truth that you can not handle. It might not sound so effective at first but as you master this art, things will vary drastically. Saying the truth has its fringe benefits. 

2. For saying a 'NO' 

Tons of people, lots of work, and lots of people asking for help. Saying no is harder than telling the truth, right? YES! But, hey, it is your life and you got to priorities YOUR work before everybody. Besides, there is no point in saying YES for a task that you never intended to do in the first place. You have to gulp the bitter medicine sometimes. You do not have to explain yourself. If your group really cares for you, they will certainly understand. 

I have so many friends complaining about how miserable they feel when they say NO. I beat it. You feel bad. You contemplate hours about it. But once you genuinely understand how important this thing is, you will not think overly much. 

3. For wanting to be alone for sometime 

Ever been in a spot where your friends call up to you at the EXACT time when you wanted to be unaccompanied? It is truly as if they were waiting to interrupt  you. Spending some time alone has a power which very few can understand. I catch most of the best ideas when I am alone (in the toilet). You might lie to your friends, you might lie to your kin, but you cannot lie to yourself when you are having an 'ME' time. You will invariably take the right decision. So, tell me, do you desire to apologise for being alone? For something that affects your life in a beneficial way? I judge not, and you should not! Some people count "being alone" as "lonely". Poor them. Only YOU know what it feels like to get away from all that drama and confusion for a little spell. 

4. For your feelings 

Feelings... This thing, I personally believe, is pretty complicated. Do you think the same way? But one thing I know for certain is that EVERYTHING you do in life is because you FEEL for it. You are emotionally attached to it. And if a person does not appreciate your feelings, you should know where YOU stand- ABOVE. Having a mastery over your feelings is not possible, this is what I believe. No matter how much you pretend you do not care, a part of you is still tied to it. Feelings do not die. Yeah, you can have a new feeling. A stronger feeling than other feelings. You cannot help how you feel, so lay off being sorry for it. 

5. Things you can not control 

There are certain things in life that no matter how hard you try, you just cannot control them. What has to happen will happen and all you can do is get away with it and prepare yourself to be a better person. You can not impress anyone so do not even try doing it. Period. 

6. For wanting best

We all are different people, some are rich, some are poor, but there is one thing common in all of us- we want OUR best.  We are born to do things for OURSELVES unless you are a social worker then that is a different thing. Wanting a little bit more for once in a while is wholly right and do not worry if people call you selfish, their mediocre thoughts will assist you achieve your goals. It is your life and you got to take the right decisions for yourself as nobody else will do that for you. If you want a successful life you got to stop what others think of you, there is no other alternative. 

7. For not tolerating bullshit 

You are not born endure all the drama in the world. My advice for you is walking away whenever you come across bullshit people and their drama. Tell you what, our life is not at all complicated, other people make it. Those people are not concerned about anything, they have no goals, no ambition in life, they undermine their own lives and then they wonder why their lives suck so much. I used to be one of those people who would listen to others' problem and imagine being in their shoes. That just crippled my life, truly. 
Also, it will not be that hard as nobody likes drama queens. 

8. For being yourself 

Why do you have to be yourself? Well, because it is rare and nobody else is going to do that for you.  Our biggest superpower is that we all are different, we are unique in different ways, and if someone does not like you the way you are, it is his fault and not yours. Wanting to change for someone you care about is a great thing, but it would be even greater if that person is ready to accept you the way you are. You have all freedom to be yourself and never ever apologise for it.